We are famous in the world of swimming for tossing around Champion like it is some badge of honour for the most elite for those who can compete at the highest levels and win. We honour them with trophies, medals and shiny ribbons. And truly from the moment they first start racing, our kids are taught being first is what matters the most. We celebrate the visible champions every single day.
Today I’d like to suggest that in sports, as in life, we redefine what it means to be a champion. Here are a few actions — sometimes visible but more often – viewed in the locker rooms and on the sidelines at your pools in the NCAA and in your communities every summer that scream Champion.
Champions do not tolerate or respect bullying and meanness , and they surely do not participate. Ever. Sometimes they walk away. And other times they speak out loudly. Mostly, those champions lead by example. They do it quietly by comforting a teammate or raising up what others might see as weaker swimmers. They understand what a team is. And they live it every day.
Champions don’t lash out at their teammates who might perform a little faster. They reach across the lane lines with a hug for competitors and teammates alike. To some extent, you can only do your best every day and in each race. There can only be a single winner, but thank goodness the number of amazing human beings we can raise is unlimited. Be one. And parents that applies double to you. I know many champion parents And I know others who need to look in the mirror. Your kids watch you.
Champions make our sport, and the world they live in better and the lives they touch richer. And they do this from their hearts when the cameras are turned off and no one is watching. They thrive in a culture of kindness and support that lifts others up instead of tearing them down. Beyond finding the right academics, my advice to anyone thinking of being a college swimmer to search the world over until you find this atmosphere, and a coach that believes this deeply.
Champions swim because they love it. They love it through Injury, illness, personal adversity and everything in between. They don’t do it to break records. They don’t do it to gain Coaches’ favour. Swimming is a part of who they are. Being around this sport I can spot them in the races. They don’t always swim great. Sometimes their races are extraordinary. But their faces light up when they hear: take your mark. And you can tell they are not going through the motions. They are passionate. Phelps is a great example. Win or lose he loves it. So many others have such raw and pure talent but they never live it, and it does not burn in their hearts.
Champions! May we raise them! May we honour their character and compassion. And if you’re a swimmer, always strive to be one and not the type society might promote. Be a champion to the core. The next generation is watching.
Courtesy of Donna Hale
Donna Hale has been a swim mom for 14 years. Her daughter is a freshman swimmer for the Davis & Elkins Senators